You know, I find it amusing that it is so hard for other people to understand the concept of me being single for a year. Is it really that tough to grasp? I usually get a wide array of responses and weird looks, but the funniest and most common comment I have come across so far is, “So just got out of a bad relationship, huh? What did he do?”
LOL
Um, no…and nothing!? I find it interesting that the moment someone decides to do something to better themselves so that they may be successful in all parts of their life, that they are looked at as though they have an eye in the middle of their forehead. Honestly, I think we could all use a little introspection from time to time. Wouldn’t hurt.
What I find even more interesting though, is that even though I have written it here and am very direct when I meet guys…they keep trying anyway, time and time again. Sorry dudes, but if you are looking for anything more than friends then you are going to lose on this one. This is not a game or a tactic. I am not playing a game of manipulation, hard to get, or reverse psychology. When I say I am not interested, I genuinely mean that I am not interested - I don’t care who you are. I have far bigger fish to fry this year and I seriously do not need the distraction.
Trust me, the end result of me after one year will be far better anyway.
;o)
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